Did you know that your struggling relationships and history of unsatisfying involvements might have something to do with you? It sounds controversial and most of us have the hardest time admitting our own flaws but at the end of the day what do we have the most control over if not ourselves? THE ORGANICS OF RELATIONSHIPS takes a fresh approach to an age - old topic - figuring out what's going wrong. By comparing our relationships to a garden Natalie Rinehart provides a tasty and wholesome approach to satisfying our hunger for answers. Try this: think of your relationship as a garden. Not that difficult. But for a garden to flourish it needs good soil plenty of nutrients lots of water and a dose of sunshine. It can't be starved of the things it needs to survive. By identifying common behaviours and female weed archetypes such as 'the nag' or 'the blackmailer' Natalie gives us all an opportunity to see ourselves in a different light and then perhaps learn how to get our relationships to thrive. This is a testing journey and results in a lot of constructive navel-gazing. But if the happy ending is currently nowhere in sight pull on the gloves get your knees dirty and start pulling out the weeds.